Evangella Cross

AUTHOR · SPEAKER · COACH

What Are You (Really) Thinking?

Uncover the hidden beliefs keeping you stuck and spinning, and step into the life God has for you.

Most of us know the right verses, and we still find ourselves replaying the same worries and reacting the same old ways. My new book (releasing Winter 2026) walks you through why that happens and how to more intentionally partner with God to renew your mind one thought at a time.

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Author

A Scripture-rooted perspective for women who know the Truth but still feel stuck and can't seem to stop spinning.

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Warm, practical teaching for women's ministries, homeschool groups, and community events.

Coach

A certified Biblical life coach who helps women find the root of the issues, rather than just address the symptoms.

Hello, I'm Evangella!

You Don't Have to Stay Stuck

Maybe you're in a season where you're trying to do all the right things — praying, reading your Bible, and showing up for everyone. And yet you know in your heart that something isn't right. There's a heaviness you can't quite name, and the same thoughts keep circling back at 3 a.m.

I've been there, and so have so many of the women I've walked alongside. Here's what I've learned: it's not the situation itself that keeps us stuck. It's what we're thinking about it. And more often than not, there's a hidden belief buried in our subconscious we didn't even know we were carrying.

I'm a certified Biblical counselor and life coach, a speaker, an author, and a "graduated" homeschool mom of two (now grown). I live in East Tennessee with my hubby of 30 years, and my favorite work is helping women catch those hidden thoughts, check them against God's Word, and step into the freedom He has for us.

Coming Winter 2026

What Are You (Really) Thinking?

We tend to believe our lives are shaped by what happens to us. But so much of what we feel and do actually flows from what we're thinking about what happens to us. That's good news, because it means we don't have to wait for our circumstances to change before God can change us.

In this book, we take a road trip together. Your thoughts are the compass, your emotions are the fuel, your behaviors are the vehicle, and your results are the destination. Along the way you'll learn two simple tools you can use for the rest of your life:

The Thought Map: a simple "go-to" framework to see what's really driving a difficult moment
Catch-Check-Change: the practice of catching a thought, checking it against Scripture, and trading it for what's true

"Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect."

ROMANS 12:2 (NLT)

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I love teaching in a room full of women who are ready to go a little deeper. My talks are warm, practical, rooted in Scripture, and leave women with a tool they can actually use on Monday morning.

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Church women's ministries, retreats, and conferences
Homeschool groups and co-ops
Recovery and community programs
High School and College groups

SAMPLE TOPICS

True Confidence: How to quiet the voice that says you’re not enough.
When Everything Feels Like Too Much: Finding peace in the middle of overwhelm.
Loving Difficult People Without Losing Yourself.
Untangling Anxiety: What to do when your mind won’t stop spinning.
The Exhausted Good Girl: Breaking free from people-pleasing.
Free From Your Past: Letting go of regret, shame, and “if only.”
Holding Your Peace When Your Feelings Are Loud.

Evangella Cross speaking to a group of women

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True Confidence: How to quiet the voice that says you’re not enough.

When Everything Feels Like Too Much: Finding peace in the middle of overwhelm.

Loving Difficult People Without Losing Yourself.

Untangling Anxiety: What to do when your mind won’t stop spinning.

The Exhausted Good Girl: Breaking free from people-pleasing.

Free From Your Past: Letting go of regret, shame, and “if only.”

Holding your peace when your feelings are loud.

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Evangella Cross

Think on purpose, so you can live out your purpose.

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